Sunday, January 29, 2012
Emails
I have a lot of emails from folks. Some are in other countries!!! They're wanting some answers. Who wants these emails? I can't answer them. Private email me please so I can forward them to you. Thanks!
Not my Joel!
My Joel would NEVER. He's to big of a man. I'll have to delete those comments. I received an email explaining what that's all about. However I would like to point out the below. I have little to no respect for people who don't place 100% faith and value in the sanctity of marriage.
Dating a Married Man
Are you the "other woman?" If you're involved with a married man, and you're waiting for your turn, it's time to re-evaluate your situation. Dr. Phil offers advice:
It's time to move forward.
If you're putting your life on hold for a married man, he's not only stolen your heart " he's stolen your brain!
If you're putting your life on hold for a married man, he's not only stolen your heart " he's stolen your brain!
No matter how you justify it, you are attacking his family unit.
Even if he is separated from his wife, that is their business, and you are a threat to their marriage. You aren't welcome, and you don't belong.
Even if he is separated from his wife, that is their business, and you are a threat to their marriage. You aren't welcome, and you don't belong.
You may feel that he's your soul mate but think again.
A real soul mate would not set you on the sidelines. He wouldn't allow it, let alone entice it.
A real soul mate would not set you on the sidelines. He wouldn't allow it, let alone entice it.
Keep in mind that you only know what he tells you.
You already know that he's a liar, because he's living a lie with his wife and children. How can you be sure whether you're the only "other woman" he has? Entertain the possibility that he is lying to you, and you are being used.
You already know that he's a liar, because he's living a lie with his wife and children. How can you be sure whether you're the only "other woman" he has? Entertain the possibility that he is lying to you, and you are being used.
Think of his wife.
Is it fair to her? She's been married to him for however many years, cleaned up after him when he's sick, raised children with him, sacrificed with him, dealt with the "damn dailies," then you come in at the 11th hour and provide a contrast to that that's new, and exciting and fun. You are intruding upon her turf. You are a trespasser. It is no different than being a thief in the night. It is no different than breaking into their house and stealing their things.
Is it fair to her? She's been married to him for however many years, cleaned up after him when he's sick, raised children with him, sacrificed with him, dealt with the "damn dailies," then you come in at the 11th hour and provide a contrast to that that's new, and exciting and fun. You are intruding upon her turf. You are a trespasser. It is no different than being a thief in the night. It is no different than breaking into their house and stealing their things.
Even if your married man decided to leave his wife and family for you, that doesn't guarantee success.
Relationships born out of affairs survive less than 5 percent of the time. If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you. If he's living this deception with you today, how could you ever trust him if you did get into a legitimate relationship with him?
Relationships born out of affairs survive less than 5 percent of the time. If he'll do it with you, he'll do it to you. If he's living this deception with you today, how could you ever trust him if you did get into a legitimate relationship with him?
Break off this relationship today.
You'll hurt, you'll feel broken-hearted, but you'll be better off. Take some time to get really clear with yourself about who you are and what you want. The most important relationship you'll ever have in this world is the one you have with yourself. And eventually, you'll fall in love again " with someone who's willing to make you first in his life!
You'll hurt, you'll feel broken-hearted, but you'll be better off. Take some time to get really clear with yourself about who you are and what you want. The most important relationship you'll ever have in this world is the one you have with yourself. And eventually, you'll fall in love again " with someone who's willing to make you first in his life!
Tuesday, January 17, 2012
A doll house every young lady can enjoy!
Perfect for those who want a doll house for their girl(s) and can't afford one. These are super easy to make and add a lot of fun to the playroom!
http://familyfun.go.com/crafts/the-perfect-dollhouse-708726/
http://familyfun.go.com/crafts/the-perfect-dollhouse-708726/
How to make paper air planes!!!
My boys have been doing this for days. Nothing better than the simple things in life!
http://www.zurqui.com/crinfocus/paper/airplane.html
http://www.zurqui.com/crinfocus/paper/airplane.html
Horse Like Teeth
Braces!! A must for every one who looks like a horse when they smile. Nothing ruins a sexy photo shot like a horse face resemblance! Wouldn't want to humiliate our partners now would we?
http://www.jxnsmiles.com/will-you-look-like-a-horse-in-ten-years/
http://www.jxnsmiles.com/will-you-look-like-a-horse-in-ten-years/
How to Bleach Your Hair Platinum Blonde - wikiHow
How to properly alter your hair. Over bleaching looks fried out and tacky. Almost ...almost as bad as neglected dark roots. If you can't maintain a good habit of updating your style then perhaps you should stick with your original or close to original hair color. Nothing screams tacky like over bleached hair with dark roots. My 2012 goal!!! Look less like trailer park trash!!!
How to Bleach Your Hair Platinum Blonde - wikiHow
How to Bleach Your Hair Platinum Blonde - wikiHow
SELF-Therapy: Couples - The Most Common Problem
This article is fab. It talks about how the insecure and controlling spouse responds to daily activities. Much like when it's an 'all or nothing'. The passive spouse is unable to maintain any relationship with family unless the controlling spouse is center of attention. They often times have to 'share' facebook, email and blogs. The controlling spouse can't handle the passive spouse being an individual. Insecurity in ones self, choices and life lead to this.
SELF-Therapy: Couples - The Most Common Problem
SELF-Therapy: Couples - The Most Common Problem
Many Thanks!
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